ALLOWED TO BE BULLIED BY COWORKERS

“A beauty tech vendor at a retail store, I experienced severe psychological bullying at the hands of two full-time employees. I was there to do a job I loved — promoting, training, and helping sell a high-end beauty tool — but my success became the reason I was targeted.

The bullying began with whispering, exclusion, and gossip meant to alienate me. These two employees appeared threatened by how well I was performing, the positive energy I brought to the team, and the praise I received from customers and coworkers alike. Eventually, one of them filed a false complaint against me, despite being the aggressor. I responded with a detailed, evidence-based account of what actually happened — but because I was a vendor, not an employee, my voice didn’t carry the same weight.

These two employees appeared threatened by how well I was performing, the positive energy I brought to the team, and the praise I received from customers and coworkers alike. Eventually, one of them filed a false complaint against me, despite being the aggressor.

Rather than acting neutrally, the store manager dismissed my concerns and subtly joined in the gaslighting. Despite my dedication, positive performance, and professionalism, I was told by my staffing agency that I was no longer welcome back. I had been effectively ousted — not for poor performance, but because I had become a perceived threat.

I had no legal recourse. As an independent contractor, and someone outside a legally protected class, I wasn’t covered by current laws — even though the emotional toll was profound. The psychological abuse I experienced affected my livelihood, my mental health, and my faith in the systems meant to protect workers.

That’s why I strongly support the Workplace Psychological Safety Act (WPSA). Unlike older legislation, WPSA doesn’t require proof of health harm or intent to be actionable. It focuses on prevention, accountability, and early intervention — before irreversible damage occurs.

Here’s why it matters:

  • Toxic work cultures harm mental health, careers, and lives.
  • The current legal system leaves most workers unprotected, especially those who aren’t in a protected class.
  • The cost of ignoring psychological abuse — in turnover, healthcare, absenteeism, lost productivity, and even lives — is far greater than the cost of prevention.
  • WPSA would set a national precedent, holding employers accountable and protecting millions of workers.

I have documentation, correspondence, and firsthand experience that shows how unchecked workplace bullying can dismantle a career and devastate a person’s well-being. What happened to me was not just personal — it is part of a pattern happening across workplaces nationwide.

No one should lose their job, their stability, or their health because of workplace bullying that goes ignored.”

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  • What tactics were used?
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  • How did it escalate?
  • How did your employer react (or not react)?
  • What was the impact on you?
  • What was the impact on the organization?
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